Life As It Is! #2

 LIFE AS IT IS  #2

All about friendships!

Hello and welcome to my little corner in the internet 💜 .I am that middleclass architect ,25 years old sharing my experiences and emotions in life as it is.

FRIENDSHIPS

Are they supposed to   support us through everything ?Are they supposed to stop us when we go wrong? Is there a right way to be a friend? How do we know if we have a healthy friendship?

These are few questions that pop in my head from time to time. In my experience ,the long term friends probably more than 20 yrs of knowing each other, they become family more than friends. And few people who you go to college with , that circle they get to know a different side of us what our family doesn't know, you know that fun rebel side of you. As more years go  the people you meet in work, or  for like a short period of time like 1-2 years , they are the complicated ones. You never know how important they are to you and you are to them! 

They seem like they are here for us all the time, but they have an alternate world that we never know about. They love you only until you see them everyday. All the friendship, chatter everything vanishes when they are in their own world .We don't matter to them. I think I do the same thing  with them probably. They seem supportive ,they give comfort but their absence brings a sense of calm that you never expect. What is friendship then? Are those people really friends or just acquaintances?

 I am very thankful to those friends who stuck with me through everything and corrected when I went wrong ;encouraged me when I did something right. At the end I feel we all have that one true friend , our own self. Even if you have friends who help you through your toughest times , its only up to you to decide and lift yourself and let yourself to be helped. 

If you have reached till the end of this blog, leave a comment about your experiences or views on friendship.

Thank you for reading. See you in the next blog. 

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